Here are the steps and settings you need to set up your iPhone to pickup your emails:

On your iPhone goto:

Settings (maybe in the Utilities group)

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TAP:
Mail, Contacts, Calendars

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TAP:
Add Account

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TAP: Other

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TAP: Add Mail Account

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FILLIN:

NAME: YourName
ADDRESS: YourEmailAddress
PASSWORD: YourPaswword
DESCRIPTION: YourEmailAddress

i.e.
NAME: FredSmith
ADDRESS: FredSmith@netmatrix.com
PASSWORD: YourPaswword
DESCRIPTION: FredSmithEmail

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Click NEXT

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VERY IMPORTANT

TAP POP

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Under incoming Mail Server
HOST NAME: pop3.YourDomainName.com
USER NAME: YourLoginName
PASSWORD: YourPassword

AND

Under Outgoing Mail Server
HOST NAME: smtp.YourDomainName.com
USER NAME: YourLoginName
PASSWORD: YourPassword
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TAP Save
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When the "Cannot Connect Using SSL" popup happens:
Do you want to try setting up the account without SSL

CLICK: YES

AFTER it does it's: Verifying (this may take some time, and you may get the SSL popup again) click YES
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You will be back at the Mail, Contacts, Calendars menu.

TAP the YourName (the name you gave your account) under Accounts

Scroll down TAP on ADVANCED

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Click on: Authentication

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On AUTHENTICATION select password

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Clcik On the Advanced button at the top

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On the Deleted Messages tab, select: "After one Week"

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TAP on the Advanced button at the top [back]

Under Incoming Settings
TAP on the Delete from Server

Selete DELETE FROM SERVER = Seven Days

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Tap on the YourName (the name you gave your account) under Accounts

Tap on Done

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You may want to, on the Fetch New Data, change that to: Mannually.

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Close the Settings App.

That's it. Your iPhone will pick up a copy of the emails in your mail box.